tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6063982749891853919.post846299629391367632..comments2023-10-26T12:24:46.408+01:00Comments on im confused: squareemhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14196652412958890367noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6063982749891853919.post-74971797539699813472009-07-17T11:41:53.312+01:002009-07-17T11:41:53.312+01:00hi d
those glasses. i think they were every kids n...hi d<br />those glasses. i think they were every kids nightmare. you got them in blue, pink, or transparent. i didnt were glasses for years afterwards i was so embarrassed. i only have to wear them for reading, so its not such a big deal.<br />x<br /><br /><br />hi diver<br />thats the thing with blogging, ive found somewhere, where i can be myself, with all my faults. i think 6 months in ed therapy helped me some way, yet being able to be myself on here i think that will help in so many other ways. you are right. thanks.<br />x<br /><br />hi steph<br />being honest. thats what i first thought when i read your blog. i think if only more people were like this. admit there mistakes, be generous with people, then we would all feel comfortable. instead of trying to be this perfect human being. which doesnt exist. <br />i think as i have so much time on my hands, im thinking things through quite alot. <br />i think school does play a huge part in our confidence making. and then you carry that around with you for the rest of your life. <br />as for the grammer. oh i should add lots of ' everywhere. i know i dont (don't)! i just place my fingers on the keyboard and type!<br />thanks for your words of encouragement.<br />xemhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14196652412958890367noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6063982749891853919.post-74620859981940822762009-07-16T22:12:12.750+01:002009-07-16T22:12:12.750+01:00See, I read that back and my grammer is all over t...See, I read that back and my grammer is all over the place.coffeecuphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14595328767389539577noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6063982749891853919.post-53900896815948568802009-07-16T22:10:42.148+01:002009-07-16T22:10:42.148+01:00Hi Alice, I read your blog because it's honest...Hi Alice, I read your blog because it's honest and I can relate to it. If you're square than me too. I've never felt as though I fully fitted in and can't explain it. No good being clever in a state run comprehensive school I guess? Those kids will crucify you for wearing the wrong kind of shoes or having an answer when they haven't got a clue. It made me feel on periphery and it's carried through all these years later. Be comfortable being yourself is the best thing I reckon, and don't concern with what other's think. Hard to do I'll be the first to say, but we identify with you, and love you for being yourself.coffeecuphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14595328767389539577noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6063982749891853919.post-25496461894994641802009-07-16T03:59:25.039+01:002009-07-16T03:59:25.039+01:00Hi Alice. That was a nice outreaching post. Hey, I...Hi Alice. That was a nice outreaching post. Hey, I don't think you're 'square' at all. I think you're most genuine; and also rather neatly <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wabi-sabi" rel="nofollow">wabi sabi</a> - as indeed most 'anxiety bloggers' are (especially the left handed ones ;-) As for dishevelled, inky hands, socks fallen down, average, plain ... congratulations, I'm pretty sure these are all 'superior' qualities.<br /><br />Try not to recriminate about your posts ma'am - just be yourself and 'blog for yourself'. I have this theory that if we are genuinely 'ourselves' online it ends up doing wonders for our confidence and social anxiety in the so-called 'real world' :)diverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10058592730402414174noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6063982749891853919.post-57194624195681060222009-07-15T21:49:12.885+01:002009-07-15T21:49:12.885+01:00if it helps, i wore those awful glasses at school ...if it helps, i wore those awful glasses at school too , was myopic, red haired, awkward , scruffy and stuttered. i managed to spend a decade or so at school utterly absorbed in self-consciousness without making a single friend . we all have our own core personalty and traits and i guess we only think other people are more normal/balanced/human than we are because we dont know them.dnoreply@blogger.com