Years of practice. And coping with lots of insensitive, cruel or brain-dead morons.I got one in the end.
Hi Alice,No tips from me I'm afraid. I guess, as Robert suggested, it comes down to life experience and how you handle it- whether you let it hold you back or not. Personally I have no middle ground. I go from ultra thin to ultra thick depending on who I am dealing with and it comes down to how much respect I have for that person. All the bestNechtan
Relative who is a practising and succesful Harley Street Hypnotherapist may suggest - imagine yourself surrounded by a big bubble - any negative comments or hurtful stuff bounce off this imaginary bubble and away... (visualising this bubble in a relaxation session may help). I think thats the way it goes - I may have missed a relevant bit.Gin & tonic makes me quite thick skinned but I hardly drink these days so out of practise on that one!Alternatively a big scary dog makes think people think twice lolWhose being hurting your feelings Alice, how very dare they to such a sweet girl.Take care
I am so sensitive, and need to find a thick skin as well. If you find one, please tell me your secret!
hi roberti forget the process, the horrible feelings you get, are really trying to help you grow the skin. instead i usually skulk away, and forget to really embrace the feelings. so i should thank all those people, and the people in the future that are futile. xhi nechtanrespect, good word to use. dont you just feel comfortable around some people like they dont make you feel like your a cretin, even if you make mistakes. the others, mmm i need to learn more. be more aware.xxxxhi acheloisi think the process this year of going through endless tests, some comments, especially from the gp, makes me feel worthless. i knew a few years ago there was something wrong with me. instead of being confident, standing up for what i believe i felt, i shrinked away. i need not be like this anymore. i need a voice, a strong voice. or a big dog. pity the dog im getting next year is a itsy, bitsy dog!!! xxxtgftgi will be sure to pass on any tips, regards to the elephant skin.xxx
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